As always, it is during the exam-weekend that all the random thoughts rush to my brain. I would think of all the things possible besides the paper that I've to sit for tomorrow. Okay, so.
I know of someone who's in a relationship they both know isn't going to work out. They're of different race, different religions, different culture overall. As for some this might not be a problem, as for them, it is a big one. Both of them are aware of the fact that their family will never, ever, approve of the relationship.
I find it stupid, okay fine, love makes everyone stupid, even the most rational one. But that only happens when you let your heart takes over the matter instead of your head. I agree that we can't choose who we fall in love with, but I believe it is our choice to stay on the ground after falling or to get back up and see the clearer picture.
There is no point of being a relationship that I know is never going to work out. I am the kind of person who go for the one I like. When I like someone I approach them, I talk to them, and I find myself really liking them, I'll probably ask them out BUT only if I see a potential in that someone.
I've countless number of guys I've a crush on (if you've been reading my blog, I've repeated this a thousand times). From my supervisor at work, to my tuition classmate when in high school, to the local people here where I study, to some random guys I came across on the net, to....basically all the good looking guys. But I didn't go and approach every single one of them, I didn't go and talk and ask all of them out. If you may ask me why, it'd be because I know they're not going to work.
Currently I've a crush on a master student here, (of course we've talked because we were on the same posting once - but most of them being educational, rarely the small talk of how're yous) but that's that. I'd squeal every time I bump into him and we exchange a 'hye'. If I were to pursue this silly crush I have for him, I'm just asking for it. Even if he likes me back (which, I don't suppose he will) it's never going to work. WeI'll go back to our normal life once I graduate and we'll probably never see each other again.
But I don't know. "Love conquers" they say. If you're willing to go against the obstacles (i.e. leaving your family behind to be with someone who may leave you anytime for any reasons) or if you think the obstacles can be solved in a win-win situation then yeah why not.
I am a hopeless romantic but at some points in life it can be surprising how rational my brain can be. So, yeah. Till later, bye!
I know of someone who's in a relationship they both know isn't going to work out. They're of different race, different religions, different culture overall. As for some this might not be a problem, as for them, it is a big one. Both of them are aware of the fact that their family will never, ever, approve of the relationship.
I find it stupid, okay fine, love makes everyone stupid, even the most rational one. But that only happens when you let your heart takes over the matter instead of your head. I agree that we can't choose who we fall in love with, but I believe it is our choice to stay on the ground after falling or to get back up and see the clearer picture.
There is no point of being a relationship that I know is never going to work out. I am the kind of person who go for the one I like. When I like someone I approach them, I talk to them, and I find myself really liking them, I'll probably ask them out BUT only if I see a potential in that someone.
I've countless number of guys I've a crush on (if you've been reading my blog, I've repeated this a thousand times). From my supervisor at work, to my tuition classmate when in high school, to the local people here where I study, to some random guys I came across on the net, to....basically all the good looking guys. But I didn't go and approach every single one of them, I didn't go and talk and ask all of them out. If you may ask me why, it'd be because I know they're not going to work.
Currently I've a crush on a master student here, (of course we've talked because we were on the same posting once - but most of them being educational, rarely the small talk of how're yous) but that's that. I'd squeal every time I bump into him and we exchange a 'hye'. If I were to pursue this silly crush I have for him, I'm just asking for it. Even if he likes me back (which, I don't suppose he will) it's never going to work. WeI'll go back to our normal life once I graduate and we'll probably never see each other again.
But I don't know. "Love conquers" they say. If you're willing to go against the obstacles (i.e. leaving your family behind to be with someone who may leave you anytime for any reasons) or if you think the obstacles can be solved in a win-win situation then yeah why not.
I am a hopeless romantic but at some points in life it can be surprising how rational my brain can be. So, yeah. Till later, bye!
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